This is not an answer how to but........
I'm not a parent nor do I have any children, but if you all figure this out write a book and or post it on a new website, if there isn't already one...
I have friends with children and for the most were reared properly in that the respect was instilled..
I have friends who have children I'd like to throttle,
no respect, don't say hello (gave on on saying it to them),
don't say thank you..Xmas stopped giving them presents,
I want it now / me world attitude,
Don't really want to work yet parent not parents in this case will pay,
want their cake and eat it too, get pregnant, have kids, drop the kids on mom so they can go out constantly
disobeying the rules of the road, walking out in front of cars
the list goes on